A Father's Love, Abigail's story. part 3 in the fascinating story of one couple's quest for a child to call their own.

My wife and I are both in our 50's. We live in the Daytona Beach area. This is part 3 of the story of our quest to adopt.
To start from the beginning, go to: A Father's Love, Mitzi's story.





Our family worker from CHS visited us today and told us we were exremely fortunate to have gotten a newborn and to have been able to keep her for so long. She said it was so rare that we should not get our hopes up for another one.

Sunday, October 29, 2006 - Yesterday was an awful day for me. I think it has taken a month for it to finally sink in that Jasmine is never coming back to us. We were there for her when she needed us and we gave her a very good, healthy start in life, but now she has her family. They have graciously agreed to allow us to continue to be a part of her life, but still, I have been in a state of grief and depression since she left. I know this kind of grief can destroy people, so I have prayed and asked God to help me let her go. I know I'll never stop loving her, but I had to come to grips with the fact that she is no longer ours. As I prayed, something from deep within my cried out to God and I said, "Father, I know it was You who put this desire in our hearts to adopt. We have done everything we know to do, but everything has failed. I cannot go on like this. I know You have a child that You have prepared just for us, so I want You to give her to us today."

CHS called us right after church this afternoon and said they have a 2 1/2-year-old girl for us to foster. She is adorable, but we don't think she is the one God has for us. She will be most likely returning to her family in a few months. They just need to get some things straightened out first. Then CHS called us again about 2 hours later and said they have a three-day-old newborn just coming out of the hospital that needs emergency shelter. We leapt at the chance. I knew this was the one. She is absolutely beautiful.

Monday, October 30, 2006 - I went to the baby's shelter hearing and met with her family. Her aunt is going to try to get custody of her, but has some issues that might prevent it. She is the only one who is even trying to get her. The baby's mother and uncle were both raised in foster care and had some very bad experiences. They are very upset that this child is also now in foster care. We assured them that we are not going to abuse her and that she will stay in our home as long as she is in the foster care system. We also told them that if she becomes available for adoption we are going to adopt her. They were comforted by that.

Friday, November 3, 2006 - The aunt just called and said that she is not going to go through with trying to get custody. They want us to raise the child.

Thursday, April 19, 2007 - Our 2 1/2 year-old little girl went back to her family today. It was very suddenly, with no transition at all. We are keeping a spot open for her, because we think she will be back.

Tuesday, October 9, 2007 - It's been a while since I updated, but today is my birthday and I just received the most wonderful birthday present of all time. Abigail Elizabeth became ours today. We are so grateful to God for His awesome gift.





Wednesday, May 16, 2007 - What a shocker; we just got our second child back again. Her mother had her for 8 months but went back to her old ways as soon as she was off court supervision. This time we will keep our distance, since we do not think the court will be going for reunification this time. She has a large family in another state, so we're sure one of them will get her. We're just glad we were here for her to come back to. It makes it a lot easier on her.

Monday, October 29, 2007 - Today is the anniversary of the day we got our Abigail and our third child. the 2 1/2 year-old, and we just got her back also. She is three now. They say this time they are going for TPR / Adoption. She's really been through a tough time and we hope we can help her recover from all the abuse and trauma she's suffered. We're ready to adopt her if it's what God has for us.


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